Published on Friday, November 20th, 2020 08:10:31 PM
5 Ways to Fight Against Insecurity as a Pastor or Leader
When you are dealing with insecurity you will do stupid and foolish things to yourself and those under your leadership. A classic case of an insecure leader is king Saul of Isreal. Though he was taller than everybody outside, yet he was very small within. Therefore, he allowed his insecurity to rule him and he ruined his reign
What’s the best way to deal with insecurity in leadership?
Here are 5 ways to deal with insecurity as a pastor or leader:
1. Avoid comparisons – Insecurity often develops when a person compares him or herself to another. Don’t try to be someone you’re not. Be yourself. Realize that who God designed you to be is not a mistake. Obviously, someone believed in your abilities as a leader. You need to stop comparing and start living in your own skin.
2. Concentrate on your abilities – What are you good at? Make a list of your good qualities. You probably have more than you think you do. In times of feeling insecure we often forget. Keep your list handy. It will help you to feel more confident if you focus more on the positives than the negatives.
3. Surround yourself with people who compliment your weaknesses – Part of having a healthy organization is the strength that comes from different people. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. There are probably people who can do things you don’t feel comfortable doing. It’s not a sign of weakness to get others involved. It’s actually a sign of strength as a leader. (And it's a more Biblical model of the church.)
4. Keep learning – Seek wisdom from other leaders. Read books. Take additional classes. Knowledge is power. Grow and become better in every way. The more you grow in information the more competent you will feel in your role. (By the way, when you feel overwhelmed or insecure, read the stories like that of Gideon, Moses, Joseph, David, or Joshua repeatedly. Great encouragement.)
5. Find your identity in what’s really secure – You have a relationship with Christ. Remember, “You can do all things through Christ who gives you strength.” If you are facing insecurity in leadership you may have to simply get better at walking by faith. “He who calls you is faithful, who also will do it.” (1 Thessalonians 5:24)
Insecurity will weigh you down and hold you back as a pastor or leader. It will keep you from doing all you were called to do. Don’t let it!
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